On Friday, September 31st, my dad and I set out en route to the University of Waterloo, in Canada, where I will start a PhD program in social psychology. I offer a 3-part reflection.
Part One: Frustration & Delight
After
scrambling to collect documents,
a frantic embassy rush
calling, e-mailing to no avail
trying to find a diplomat to personally vouch for me (haha),
asking neighbors for advice,
a last-minute money order,
overnight FedExing,
MANY forms and MUCH anxiety....
It turns out you bring a few documents, wait ten minutes at the border, and a jolly man says, "stapler me" and attaches your new 5-yr study permit to your passport.
Just cancel that other slow application.
In fact, I only actually had evidence of financial support for 2 years,
but he threw in the extra 3-- what the heck!
I spent the rest of the ride very conflicted
and giddy...
and antsy for my mysterious new life...
while eating way too many peanuts because that's all that was in the car-- dad.
(Butterflies don't mix well with peanuts)
Part Two: French Cheerios & Bagged Milk
A new variation on an old theme
Part Three: A Comparison
First few memories, first-year undergrad--
Ok so maybe it isn't that bleak, but room/bank/appliance/grocery orientation certainly do come before social orientation this time (officially tomorrow!)
What's worse, though, is that in that endless sea of organizing, there is not even the slightest distraction to grab onto: NO NETFLIX, HULU, PANDORA, or even any inferior equivalents in this country!! I don't even normally resort to watching shows, but there I was, finally in my time of need-- and no streaming-- nothing.
Canada will have to make up for this.
And so it is, in my search for joyous reprieve, I returned to the raw distraction of years past, my native love: tweezing. My pores are irritated, to say the least. But, in the event that someone catches a glimpse of me through a magnifying mirror in a well-lit room tomorrow, boy, will they be impressed.
Wish me luck!



Jane you have a blog!! Well I hope you enjoyed your bagged milk, only one of the many mysterious things Canada has to offer :D Have you tired ketchup chips? I hear they're unique to us too...
ReplyDeleteI wish I could make up for your bleak/empty house. We will have to try. We'll find something crazy to do sooner or later.
And tweezers... hmm ya I probably should get on that at some point too haha
Hope I'm not creeping you out commenting. I swear I will not be some kind of stalker :D
No zero creepy. Yay comments and getting into something crazy! Ketchup chips might just do the trick. haha gross
DeleteAwwwww...don't worry, it gets better fast! It's hard to find a better group of people than those grad students. Feel free to go up to random Social people and say "Jo says hi, and that you have to be nice to me."
ReplyDeleteLuck, Jane!
Deletehaha definitely much more interesting since orientation started, well minus some of the meeting parts. Thanks :)
DeleteJane,
ReplyDeleteI promise to never let you leave again without a good supply of apples and cheese.
Aunt Barbara
hm! well I may have made it out to be worse than it is, but I won't say no to that.
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